Guru BK, Ngangenin atau Jengkelin?
Friday, September 21, 2018
Kalau denger kata guru BK, yang pertama terlintas dibenak anak 90'an pasti adalah sosok menyeramkan yang sering memberi sanksi dan mungkin lebih ke istilah "polisi sekolah". Di? jug? tuk?ng c?ri m?s?l?h, s?hingg? BK tug?sny? h?ny? m?n?ng?ni ?n?k-?n?k y?ng n?k?l s?j?. B?hk?n y?ng l?bih ?kstrim l?gi m?sih ?d? y?ng m?ng?ngg?? guru BK tid?k ?d? ??k?rj??nny?. Th?ng?k-th?nguk s?j? dik?nt?rny?. M?k?ny? k?b?ny?k?n guru BK dib?rik?n tug?s h?ny? m?nj?di guru ?ik?t dis?k?l?h s?j?. ?t?u mis?lk?n ???bil? ?d? guru y?ng tid?k m?suk m?k? guru BK ditug?sk?n untuk m?ngg?nti j?m t?rs?but ?g?r k?l?s tid?k k?s?ng.
S?mu? itu tid?kl?h b?n?r t??i jug? tid?k s?l?h. Yuk, m?ri intr?s??ksi diri. B?g?im?n? sih m?nj?di guru Bk y?ng dirinduk?n sisw?ny?? M?nj?di guru BK y?ng dirinduk?n sisw? s?b?n?rny? tid?kl?h sus?h n?mun jug? tid?k g?m??ng. S?b?n?rny? s?b?lum itu guru BK h?rus m?ngub?h c?r? ??nd?ng sisw?ny? t?rl?bih d?hulu ?g?r tid?k m?ng?ngg?? guru bk s?b?g?i guru y?ng m?n?kutk?n.
Kit? sud?h b?r?d? di ?b?b 21, sud?h buk? j?m?nny? l?gi s??r?ng guru dit?kut ???l?gi d?ng?n guru BK y?ng s?h?rusny? l?bih d?k?t d?ng?n sisw?ny?. T?rny?t? y?ng di??rluk?n sisw? j?m?n s?k?r?ng j?uh b?rb?d? d?ng?n g?n?r?si y?ng d?hulu. Y?ng d?hulu ?d? ??rm?in?n b?nt?ng?n, ??t?l l?l?, d?bl?k s?k?r?ng ??rm?in?n itu sud?h t?r?s? j?dul b?gi ?n?k j?m?n s?k?r?ng. Di j?m?n s?k?r?ng ?n?k l?bih s?n?ng b?rm?in ??rm?in?n di g?dg?t m?m?uny?i ??lik?si y?ng b?rm?c?m-m?c?m d?n s?l?lu u? t? d?t?. ?r? digit?lis?si y?ng m?nj?dik?n j?ngk?u?n int?r?ksi m?r?k? s?ng?t lu?s s?hingg? ??rm?s?l?h?n y?ng dih?d??i sisw? jug? s?ng?t k?m?l?ks dib?ndingk?n d?ng?n j?m?n d?hulu.
D?ri ??rm?s?l?h?n t?rs?but, b?g?im?n? guru BK d???t m?ng?t?siny? k?l?u k?b?ny?k?n d?ri guru BK s?ndiri tid?k m?u m?ng?rti t?nt?ng m?s?l?h sisw?ny??
?d? ?m??t l?y?n?n bimbing?n k?ns?ling y?ng h?rus di ?mb?n guru BK y?itu bimbing?n b?l?j?r (t?rk?it d?ng?n c?r? b?l?j?r), Bimbing?n ?rib?di, bimbing?n k?rir d?n bimbing?n s?si?l. D?ri k??m??t tug?s itu must?hil t?rl?ks?n? jik? guru BK s?ndiri tid?k m?ng?d?k?n hubung?n b?ik d?ng?n sisw?ny?.
B?rsik?? l?bih t?rbuk?
Disini, guru bk h?rus bis? m?nj?di w?d?h b?gi sisw? untuk m?nd???tk?n s?r?n d?n ?r?h?n b?hk?n m?tiv?si ?g?r d???t m?ny?l?s?ik?n ??rm?s?l?h?n. Guru BK h?rus m?nj?di s?s?k y?ng m?ng?sikk?n b?gi sisw?, b?rsik?? t?rbuk? ?g?r l?bih d?k?t d?ng?n sisw? d?n l?bih m?m?h?mi m?s?l?h sisw?. ???k?h itu sus?h? Tid?k, K?r?n? guru Bk jug? ??rn?h m?ng?l?mi m?s?-m?s? mud? s???rti y?ng di?l?mi sisw?. Di j?m?n ini sisw? l?bih s?n?ng d?ng?n guru BK y?ng b?r??r?n s???rti s?h?b?t. K?r?n? guru BK b?r?d? di??sisi ??ling d???n d?l?m m?mb?ntuk k?r?kt?r sisw? d?n m?ng?nt?rk?n sisw? k? j?nj?ng k?rirny? s?su?i b?k?t d?n min?t m?r?k?.
Guru BK h?ny? b?rm?d?lk?n s?nyum sud?h m?mb?rik?n k?s?juk?n ??d? sisw?. S?l?in itu guru BK jug? bis? m?nj?di m?di?t?r ?nt?r? guru d?n sisw? m?u?un sisw? d?ng?n ?r?ng tu? jik? t?rj?di k?s?l?h??h?m?n. ???k?h itu s?mu? sud?h cuku?? Tid?k, sisw? l?bih c?nggih, h? t?rc?ngih ?un bis? m?r?k? ???r?sik?n. S?h-s?h s?j? bil? m?r?k? curh?t di W?, lin?, fb ?t?u l?y?n?n y?ng l?inny? y?ng bis? di??k?i s?b?g?i m?di? l?y?n?n ??ngg?nti bk, b?ik ?l?m k?rir, ?rib?di, s?si?l d?n b?l?j?r.
N?h b?y?ngk?n s?j? jik? di s?k?l?h t?rd???t ribu?n sisw? t??i h?ny? ?d? tig? guru , b?g?im?n? mungkin sisw? d???t t?rl?y?ni? N?h disini guru BK h?rus m?mbu?t in?v?si b?ru. Guru BK h?rus bis? m?numbuhk?n min?t sisw? ?g?r m?u d?t?ng s?ndiri k? ru?ng BK untuk s?k?d?r curh?t ?t?u k?nsult?si. Sy?r?tny? tid?k b?gitu rumit. Cuku? di tuntut untuk m?m?uny?i ??ng?t?hu?n y?ng lu?s k?r?n? s?l?h s?tu d?ri k?b?rh?sil?nny? ?d?l?h guru bk m?m?uny?i b?rb?g?i inf?rm?si t?rkini. Untuk m?nd???tk?n itu guru bk h?rus m?u b?l?j?r d?n b?l?j?r.
N?h mul?i s?k?r?ng, guru BK h?rus m?ngub?h ??nd?ng?n b?hw? guru BK buk?n ??lisi s?k?l?h s?hingg? tid?k di?ngg?? s?b?g?i ??k?rj??n y?ng bi?s?-bi?s? s?j? m?l?ink?n guru bk y?ng dirinduk?n sisw?ny? s?hingg? s?but?n guru bk y?ng ?r?f?ssi?n?l buk?n h?ny? sl?g?n s?m?t?.
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